So, I decided to get a children’s book about sexual abuse which has been helpful. My husband and I talk about almost anything, but I feel too awkward to mention it to him because it should be an awful thing to think about his father. And it will be terrible to stop him visiting them if there is nothing bad going on between my son and his grandpa. I even hate to doubt like that because his grandfather is a good person. I may be overreacting, but I've been concerned about this. Lastly, when his grandparents visited our house, I saw his grandfather hugging him tight while kind of kissing his ears and neck (I thought I saw his tongue sticking out a bit, so it looked like he was slightly licking him), and my son looked a bit uncomfortable although he was giggling too. I had never seen him reacting like that to his grandfather he looked and sounded that he really hated it. On that particular night, I had seen him trying to reject his grandfather when the grandfather tried to hug and tickle him. My 8 year old son used to love going to their house and hanging out with his grandfather but has recently said he doesn’t want to go there, and once cried when he was supposed to spend the night. I don’t feel safe to let my son to stay overnight at his grandparents' house. I’ve felt a bit strange about my son's reactions toward his paternal grandfather.
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